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ASK DEEVA: “Help! I’m Addicted To Lesbian Porn” – Randy Housewife

black-lesbian-couple1I got this email from a woman in desperate need of Pweebers advice. Read…

Hello Deeva,

I don’t know where to start from because I know I grew up like any regular girl who was attracted to guys. Somewhere along the line, something changed and now as a married woman, I don’t enjoy sex with my husband.

In my third year at the University, I met Dayo. He was a tall, dark and handsome hunk who practically swept me off my feet. The problem was every other girl on campus wanted him. Dayo soon got carried away with all the female attention that he started sleeping with practically everything in skirt. I broke up with him some months later and stayed single. I just couldn’t bear giving my heart to men any longer.

My first lesbian encounter was on Valentine’s day in 2009. My room mate, Sandra and I were boyfriend-less. So we decided to treat ourselves to a great Valentine regardless of the fact that we had no lover to celebrate with. We dressed up in our sexiest lingerie, slathered some perfume on and got cupcakes, chocolate, candy and wine. We toasted to being single and drowned our loneliness in several glasses of wine.

That night as we slept on the same bed; somehow we snuggled together, kissed and fondled our boobs. On a normal day, it would have felt awkward but on this very night it didn’t. We were both revved up from the wine so I didn’t give it a thought. I’m sure Sandra has been with a woman before, because she knew exactly what to do and where to touch.

Sandra rubbed and sucked on my clitoris while fingering me at the same time. Then she really took her time, sucking and fondling my boobs. You can never imagine how sweet the sensations were. Making out with a girl is so different. The feel of her soft body rubbing against mine…boob to boob, lip to lip. I had the most explosive orgasm ever! When we woke up the following morning, we just didn’t talk about it and we never did it again.

During my Youth Service year in 2011, I fell in love with a great guy and we got married. But I observed that I’m usually aroused whenever I see a girl with nice boobs and ass. It just drives me wild. Although I’ve never had another encounter with a lady ever since due to my religious beliefs, the man I married is not helping me take my mind off sleeping with a woman. He regularly works out-of-town on field assignment and he isn’t exactly good in bed.

When I’m feeling horny and he’s away, I’ll just lie down and recall that night with Sandra while playing with myself and I’d have an explosive orgasm. Whenever I tell my hubby to suck me, he’ll end up biting my clitoris and leaving too much saliva down there.

I have never experienced an orgasm with him and it’s driving me crazy. About a year ago, I decided that rather than cheat on my husband with another man, I’d masturbate using  lesbian porn videos. Now I enjoy it so much that after sex with my husband, I still sneak to the living room to play a lesbian porn DVD on my laptop. Without that, I can never have an orgasm or feel relaxed.

The problem is I always feel guilty afterwards. Please I need advice from you and your readers. How can I get out of this mess?

-Randy Housewife.

DEEVA’S RESPONSE:

In as much as these are modern times and the trend is to explore various sexual options and preferences, I’ve learnt from experience that people get into much less trouble when they stick to a conventional lifestyle.

Sex is a physically gratifying experience but it can also be a spiritually fulfilling experience if done with the right person. That you even feel guilty after masturbating to lesbian porn or that you can’t reach orgasm with your husband unless you fantasise about being with a woman means within you, you know you’re not doing something right.

For some couples, it takes a lot of understanding and sacrifice to become sexually compatible. That your husband cannot perform certain sex acts in a way which gives you maximum pleasure doesn’t mean that he’s a total failure in bed. Communication is the most important secret to a happy marriage. Open a conversation using the most loving approach that will make the man listen to you without hurting his pride. That way, you can find fulfilment and even greater sexual excitement from exploring ways for you both to enjoy better sex.

I intend for my darling Pweebers to actively comment on my “Ask Deeva” segment so I anxiously await their comments. In the meantime, watch this video titled “Dead Porn Stars Memorial.” It’s a compilation of some of the world’s most famous porn stars and how they died. It carries a strong hidden message and if you’re a GOOD person you’ll have to agree that pornography should not be encouraged.

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Peace is a wife and mother who reports and analyses global trends from the perspective of a Deeva; in the hope of invoking a thought process that will lead to a positive change.

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